Thursday, January 6, 2011

What's a lonely girl to do?

Josh left for a two-week vacation in Asia--much deserved! He works harder than anyone I know, and hasn't had a long, luxurious trip in so long. However, Jensy remained in New York, with work commitments piling up and not enough dough to travel. Two weeks is a long time for me! I love having him around, and I get bored without my best bud. In summer months, I would be camped out on the roof of my apartment building with an ice cold can of Diet Coke and a pile of fashion magazines by my side and I would be content there for hours. But in the harsh and whipping cold, where no coat seems warm enough and a two-block walk to the drug store makes my eyes tear and the hem of my pants muddy, I need an indoor itinerary to keep me busy and entertained, yet warm.

Books
My favorite way to pass the time is reading. I love to go for classics but recently have been on a kick with newly released fiction. Something about reading things written in and about the decades and places that are familiar to me just makes me feel at ease. I picked up "Life in Miniature" by Linda Schlossberg the other night. It's her debut novel, and I see great things from her in the future. I am very into her unique style--this novel is written from the perspective of a pre-adolescent whose mother suffers from mental illness, giving an interesting view of this complicated topic. I'm only about halfway through, but obsessed! Check it out.

Museums
I totally play favorites with museums. It seems that no matter how many times I go to the Met, the Modern, or the Guggenheim, I am never bored, and I always find something new and exciting to enjoy. But I really am looking to head outside of my comfort zone and check out something new. I haven't been to the Frick since I was eleven or twelve, and I remember it feeling a bit stodgy and too, well, museum-y, but maybe with new eyes and several years distance it will be a different experience? My mom adores the Frick. Adding it to the list! I am also chomping at the bit to see the Hopper exhibit at the Whitney, so that might be the first stop. Also thinking of finally heading to the Jewish museum; it seems high time.

Movies
The two movies I am absolutely dying to see are so indicative of the two sides of my personality. Black Swan and Country Strong. I know what you're thinking. Dark psychological thriller vs. fluffy romance set against the backdrop of the corniest music genre out there. I know I am going to love both. There's been so much press on Black Swan but I still feel like everyone I've spoken to has had a totally different and reaction to, and experience with, the film. I know its impact will probably earn another blog entry once I’ve seen it.
Country Strong I haven't actually read anything about yet; I've only seen the trailers. I'm a total sucker for love and I know it's going to make me cry. Pookie and I have always loved country music. I remember so vividly driving around the mountains of Vermont with the local country station blasting through the speakers of her Ford Explorer or my VW Bug and singing along to every sad, silly, and true word. I feel like seeing this movie will bring me right back.

Girl Time
Admittedly, aside from reading half a book, the only thing I've really done on my hit list is grab some wine with a girl friend. Monique and I have a new office in midtown and we set out on foot Monday night to check out the 'hood. We googled "wine bar" in the west 40's and found Gallo Nero, an absolutely lovely little tapas place with a wine list from here to heaven. We tucked ourselves into a corner table in the dark and intimate spot and stayed for hours, sharing the prosciutto and mozzerella plate, the roasted chicken with mashed potatoes, and a few glasses of wine--hers red, mine white. I have a feeling many more of these nights lie ahead. I am looking for sweet little spots to try where the wine flows and the food is yummy yet I don't leave feeling so broke I could cry.


Mom Time
Mom is heading into the city at some point to help me organize the apartment--which has grown quite scary with heaps of clothes that don't fit into closets and bags of Christmas presents searching for a home. I will post photos and tips on the reorganization once it is finished. Nothing like having Mom around to help keep you busy!

2 comments:

  1. I'm happy to hear you're enjoying life in miniature, I've heard lots of good things about it and its on my list of books to read this winter! Black Swan is a must see!! I had to see it twice to really take it all in because its kind of disturbing yet intriguing and really well acted, yall love the dancing- which might be my only criticsm of the film is it left me wanting more... the only thing i've heard about Country Strong was in an interview with Gwyneth Paltrow descibing her favorite sceen, which i wont tell you now because it gives a bit too much for the story line away. also she does all of her own singing and drove her kids crazy rehearsing all the time doing silly vocal warmups :) Please post your reactions to the films, I'd love to hear what you have to say and it may sway my decision to see Country Strong in the theater. Which reminds me, did you see burlesque? If so how was it?

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  2. Mr Lonely--hello to you too! I checked out your blog and it's great :)
    Keep up the good work!

    Duck Fluff--Definitely read Life in Miniature. I finished it, and while I found the end a tad sentimental, it really is a great read. I look forward to hearing what you think about it! I've moved on to Little Bee now. Will post thoughts on that later in the week.

    I haven't seen Burlesque! I meant to, but I just wasn't sure I wanted to fork over the $12 for the ticket. It's on my Netflix list though. Stay tuned!

    xoxo

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